# Balancing Seriousness and Fun in Writing: A Delicate Dance
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Chapter 1: The Weight of Seriousness
A few years back, I attended a writer's conference where one speaker emphasized that writing should be enjoyable, and that we often take it too seriously. I clung to this idea, especially as I was on the verge of launching my first book, managing a demanding freelance business, and dedicating increasing hours to marketing. Writing felt more like a burden than a joy.
Once I heard that perspective, a realization dawned on me: I was indeed making it more serious than necessary. By loosening my grip, I found immediate relief. It was a revelation! Shifting my mindset allowed me to see that writing isn't the end-all, be-all of existence.
Then I stumbled upon a thought-provoking post by acclaimed author and creative writing instructor Roxane Gay, titled "Seriously, Though…Some Thoughts on Writers Who Take Themselves Seriously." Gay pointed out that while being serious about writing may come across as "uncool" or "self-important," those who dedicate themselves to their craft are often the ones who work hard, make intentional choices, and strive to create something meaningful. Is that really a negative trait?
I recognized myself in her words. I put in the effort and aim to produce work that matters. Yet, here I was, slipping back into my serious mindset.
What’s the takeaway? Should a writer be someone who takes their work earnestly, seeking depth and discipline, or should they embrace a lighthearted approach that allows creativity to flourish naturally?
Section 1.1: The Serious Writer’s Dilemma
Serious writers are often characterized by their strong work ethic and relentless pursuit of improvement. Many of us fall into perfectionism, struggling to let go of pieces that might still need tweaking. Bestselling author Jerry Jenkins encapsulated this sentiment in his article, "10 Productivity Tips for Serious Writers," stating, "Your daily discipline will make or break you as a writer." He emphasizes that successful books don't simply appear out of hope; they result from dedication and hard work.
Serious writers tend to seek more than just entertainment or self-expression; we often write to understand our lives and relationships better. Anna Smith, an English teacher, notes that her students view writing as a means to navigate their identities and interpersonal dynamics. It becomes a sincere endeavor, far beyond mere assignments.
Serious writers often grapple with existential questions about their work's significance. We can become overwhelmed with doubt, leading to periods of writer's block or even self-doubt.
Section 1.2: The Non-Serious Writer's Freedom
On the flip side, non-serious writers seem to navigate the writing world with greater ease. During the same conference, one speaker shared that writing is fun for him, and he considers himself fortunate to do what he loves. He can produce a novel in a matter of weeks, send it off, and move on without lingering worries.
Non-serious writers may perceive their serious counterparts as overly precious or even pitiful. William Zinsser, author of On Writing Well, noted that "people take writing much too seriously" and suggested they need to relax and enjoy the process.
Humorously, author Mohit Parikh offered tongue-in-cheek advice to serious writers: avoid eating too much, as if dedication to craft should come at the expense of basic needs. He also jested about the futility of self-care in the face of intense creative suffering.
For many non-serious writers, writing is merely one aspect of life, not the entirety of it. They maintain balance and often produce work with less anxiety, allowing for a more enjoyable writing experience.
Chapter 2: Finding Your Balance
What does this mean for serious versus non-serious writers? Perhaps both sides could learn from each other. Serious writers might benefit from lightening up, while non-serious writers could explore deeper themes and intentions in their work.
Ultimately, how serious is too serious in the realm of writing? It’s a question worth pondering. Finding a middle ground could enrich both our writing and our lives.