Threesomes are a prevalent topic of conversation in today's society. This is not merely an attention-grabbing statement; it reflects a genuine trend. Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a researcher in human sexuality and host of the Sex and Psychology Podcast, has dedicated years to exploring sexual behaviors and desires. His insights aim to uncover what drives individuals in their intimate lives.

One of the significant conclusions from his book, Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life, is the overwhelming popularity of threesomes as a fantasy. In a comprehensive study involving 4,175 participants aged 18 to 87, threesomes emerged as one of the top sexual fantasies, alongside BDSM and adventurous sexual experiences. An impressive 87% of women and 95% of men reported fantasizing about engaging in sexual activities with multiple partners.

The fascination with threesomes is well-established, but how does this fantasy translate into real-life experiences?