Section 1.1: The Power of Decluttering

The first practice I embraced was decluttering. I made it a habit to regularly assess and eliminate unnecessary items, creating a more simplified living environment. I refused to let possessions dictate my life, especially those I deemed useless. When I decided to part with items, I would either gift them or sell them to someone who might benefit from them. Sentimental items and heirlooms were exceptions, but I still designated specific spaces for them to avoid disruption in my newly curated feng shui.

This practice brought back fond memories, reminiscent of a classic film, Cyrano de Bergerac, featuring José Ferrer, which I cherished watching with my father. I recalled Cyrano's poignant remark about wearing adornments only on his soul. This reflection illuminated my understanding that I had never been one to cling to possessions. Spiritually, I had always nurtured my own altars and inner shrines, allowing me to connect with my ancestors regardless of my physical surroundings. This minimalist approach mirrored how artists like Jay-Z craft songs—translating thoughts directly into melodies without the need for pen and paper.

Section 1.2: Intentionality in Purchases

The next significant shift involved making intentional purchases. I focused on evaluating the potential utility of any item before acquiring it. If an item couldn’t serve a daily purpose, I dismissed it as an option. This reminded me of a time my grandfather noted my habit of owning multiple pairs of shoes in a week. He instilled in me the notion that shoes are meant for wearing, not hoarding. This realization honed my ability to distinguish between wants and needs.

For some reason, shoes became my greatest teachers in this practice. I have friends who own countless pairs, while others stick to one versatile option for years. I found myself somewhere in between, though never reaching excessive ownership. By being mindful of what I allowed into my life, prioritizing quality and necessity over quantity, I created distance from the allure of instant gratification.

Section 1.3: Digital Minimalism

Another practice that proved beneficial, when I remained disciplined, was digital minimalism. I streamlined my digital life by organizing files, limiting app usage, and reducing screen time. This adjustment not only improved my mental health but also helped regulate my sleep patterns. The blue light from screens disrupts our natural rhythms, so I started turning off my phone an hour before bedtime, which significantly reduced my insomnia.

Section 2.1: Financial Simplicity

In simplifying my financial life, I automated bills, minimized credit card usage, and prioritized savings, all of which reinforced my commitment to essentialism. By concentrating on what truly adds value to my life and letting go of the superfluous, I cultivated an essentialist mindset. Practicing mindfulness in my tasks—avoiding multitasking and distractions—allowed me to focus deeply on one thing at a time. By streamlining my digital tools and keeping only those that enhance productivity and well-being, I made mindful technology possible.

Section 2.2: Nurturing Meaningful Connections

Most crucially, I prioritized cultivating meaningful relationships, letting go of toxic connections to foster a more fulfilling social circle. I firmly believe that the five closest individuals in your life reflect who you are. By nurturing purposeful relationships and implementing the ten practices discussed, I’ve been able to create space for joy while minimizing stress. I continually return to these practices, as they help me maintain clarity in my life.