Chapter 1: The Joy of the Holiday Gap

Christmas has come to an end, and with Boxing Day behind us, we find ourselves in what many consider the most wonderful time of the year.

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If you find yourself with a few days off after Christmas, you may be fortunate enough to enjoy the “Holiday Gap.” This is that magical period between the 27th and 30th of December, where excitement seems to pause, and nothing particularly eventful occurs.

For me, this is my favorite part of the holiday season. All the preparations leading up to Christmas have concluded, and the hustle and bustle have subsided. The decorations are dimmed, the festive music is quieter, and the anxiety has faded away. Everyone has enjoyed their gifts, and thankfully, the cat has survived without chewing on the ornaments.

And best of all, there’s still a few more days without work, and the sense of relief is almost tangible. Christmas can be incredibly demanding, though undeniably enjoyable. This period allows us to unwind and regain a sense of normalcy after the chaos of holiday festivities.

It's a chance for adults to finally take a breather, while the younger children can dive into their new toys, assuming they received gifts. My adult children, both on the autism spectrum, particularly need this time. The overwhelming sights and sounds of Christmas can be too much for them, so having a few days to decompress is essential. Many families share this experience.

Even our dog gets a moment to relax.

In my family, which is quite large on my mother’s side, we often gather for an afternoon together during this interval. We might enjoy a hearty family meal and a movie, just as we did today. My siblings, nieces, nephews, my mum, my aunt, and uncle all come together. With the holiday pressures behind us, we savor each other's company for a few hours.

This gathering is often the only time throughout the year that we all share the same space, and it’s fascinating to see how the children mature from year to year. Our conversations range from cheerleading competitions to the mundane details of parenting, such as whether the baby has been changed.

Most of our family members are talented cooks, and the meals are always delightful. This year, I enjoyed shepherd’s pie and a shepherdess pie, catering to my vegan preferences—there’s always one in the family, right?

On other days, we indulge in leisurely walks, enjoy leftovers, and embrace a bit of tranquility. Here in Suffolk, there are endless countryside trails and muddy fields to explore, allowing us to take in some fresh air.

Numerous welcoming cafes and pubs are dotted throughout the area, perfect for stopping in with our dog for a caffeine boost and a snack. It’s a wonderful time to make the most of my National Trust membership.

As we approach the New Year, it's an ideal moment to contemplate what you hope to achieve in the coming year. The holiday gap provides a chance to sit down and strategize how to make your aspirations a reality.

With a fresh diary and a blank calendar, it’s time to outline your future plans. Where would you like to find yourself a year from now? What steps will you take to get there? Start with your ultimate goal and chart your path.

Consider where you envision being in five years. How will you reach that destination? Construct a five-year plan, detailing each year’s objectives. After all, it’s important to think big sometimes.

Now is the perfect time to visualize your goals before diving in. It’s an opportunity to get excited about the possibilities that await in the year ahead, as well as to reflect on the past year and determine how to forge ahead.

This is your moment to clear your mind.

You can savor what remains of the holiday treats while simultaneously easing your stress. Want to purchase a new car? Begin a savings plan. Interested in going vegan? Veganuary is the perfect way to start. Looking to advance your career? Seek out educational opportunities in your field over the next few months to enhance your expertise. Interested in a new hobby? Go for it!

You can map out countless small changes in preparation for the New Year to help you reach your goals. The start of the New Year provides you with the motivation to take action.

But first, make sure to relish the holiday gap. Take a moment to unwind. You've come a long way since the last holiday. Treat yourself to a break, sip on some vanilla coffee, indulge in a box of chocolates, and just relax.

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